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by
Dennis Harness
Yukteswar's warning is important to keep in mind when attempting
to make definitive predictions about a client's life. Thus,
an astrologer may be more ethically sound, by speaking in
terms of potential trends rather than specific future events.
The astrologer must understand the "laws of Karma",
for even accurate predictions need to be accompanied by
right understanding of the significance of life events.
That is, what is the life lesson that is being taught at
a given moment in time.
Astrological Counselling
Styles
In regards to astrological consulting, three basic
styles are prevalent.
The first and most basic method is an Informational
Style. This involves the astrologer making either
an audio tape and/or written analysis of the natal chart
and sending it to the person. If the consultation is done
face to face, little dialogue takes place with this format.
This presentation style reflects a major difference between
astrologers and psychotherapists. That is, astrologers are
paid to talk, and psychotherapists are paid to listen. The
problem with this approach is that it allows little, if
any input from the client. It is often difficult to assess
completely from the chart alone, the client's motivation
and state of consciousness.
I
remember giving a consultation to a female client with a
Kemadruma Yoga where no planets were placed on either side
of the Moon and no planets were found in the kendras from
the Lagna or the Moon. In his classic text, Three Hundred
Important Combinations, Dr. Raman writes that this yoga
can reflect a person who will be "dirty, sorrowful,
doing unrighteous deeds, poor, dependent, a rogue and a
swindler". In fact, the infamous O.J. Simpson has this
yoga in his natal chart. Whereas, my female client's Kemadruma
Yoga manifested into her work with Mother Theresa: helping
the sick, the dependent and the poor in the streets of Calcutta.
She is currently one of the charity organization's chief
advisors. There is always some mystery how a specific aspect
or planetary yoga may manifest in an individual's life.
The
second basic style of astrological consulting is a
Counselling
Style, which can involve an in-depth
dialogue between the astrologer and client. This
can be done either face to face or by a phone consultation.
A good
astrologer is usually very intuitive and can read much
from the physiognomy and facial expressions. When giving
a consultation
by phone, I often request that the client send a photograph
and letter stating their concerns and questions to assist
in creating more empathic connection. Literally, the client
wants to be seen on all levels of being.
As
mentioned previously, the astrologer should receive some
basic training in effective counselling skills such as:
building rapport, empathy, effective listening and unconditional
positive regard toward the client; diagnosing mental illness,
and not flooding the client with negative or challenging
aspects in their natal chart. Astrological knowledge that
does not consider the state of consciousness of the client
can cause great psychological harm, especially if forced
prematurely on a client. The astrologer must be able to
discern what is appropriate to share at a given moment.
It is also essential that the client leave the astrological
consultation with a sense of hope, faith and empowerment
rather than fear, doom and gloom. In contrast, the astrologer
must not "sugar coat" the consultation by avoiding
all challenging aspects in the natal chart.
The
third basic style is psychotherapeutic astrology.
This type of astrological counselling is rare and has its
challenges. It would involve utilizing the natal chart as
a diagnostic tool to enhance the weekly therapy sessions.
As mentioned earlier, astrology was a diagnostic method
that Dr. C.G. Jung used in his therapeutic practice.
Psychotherapeutic
astrology allows the client's view of their life lessons
to be shared with the astrologer over the course of therapy.
It is difficult to cover many issues in-depth when the
client
is not seen for more than one to two hours a year. Psychotherapeutic
astrology encourages the client to ask questions and
give
responses anytime during the consultation. As mentioned
previously, the primary drawback of the single "astrological
reading" is the necessary condition of minimal client
participation in order to cover much ground in the session.
While
counselling astrology is usually brief and aimed at specific
problem areas, psychotherapeutic astrology is more long-term
with a genuine relationship developing between the client
and astrologer. Psychotherapy involves improving the person's
inner personality structure, whereas counselling helps the
client to deal more effectively with immediate problems
without requiring significant internal change.
Since
traditional psychotherapy involves the therapist in the
role of witness and a listener, presentation of astrological
information would have to given with care and may not be
appropriate with certain clients suffering from mental disorders
such as chronic depression, schizophrenia, paranoia, etc.
Astrology can create a magical transference with the client
seeing the therapist as the one who knows all and has the
'Magic Pill" for instant recovery. This can create
unrealistic projections that get in the way of the natural
healing process that is taking place in the therapeutic
relationship between client and therapist. These issues
will have to be addressed as more therapists begin to integrate
astrology into their therapeutic practice.
In
my own astrological practice, several psychotherapist's
refer their clients for an astrological consultation
and
then also listen to the audio tape of the session to gain
further insight into the client's psychological issues.
The psychotherapist can utilize the astrologer as an "archetypal
consultant" to point out the hidden strengths as
well as potential blocks in the therapeutic process.
C.G. Jung
often emphasized the importance of discovering what archetypal
myths the client is working with in this lifetime. As
we
know, astrology is an excellent tool for revealing life
lessons, themes and personal myths pertaining to one's
individuation
process. It is important to remember that the basis of
astrology is mythology and symbolic language. Exploring
the myths
and symbols of the planets, signs and nakshatras can be
very enlightening during a consultation.
When
chronic psychological disturbance is observed, astrological
therapy may be inappropriate or detrimental to the therapeutic
process. A client suffering from chronic psychopathology
such as depression or schizophrenia may need psychotherapy
more than astrological counselling. If the astrologer is
not trained in psychotherapy, they should have referral
sources in their local community. It is a competent astrologer
who also knows when to refer a client to a health professional.
Astrologically,
I have seen afflictions to Mercury and/or Moon involved
with mental disorders. Papa Katari Yoga may be present with
Moon or Mercury scissored between two malefic planets. Afflictions
to the Fourth house of emotional contentment and the Fifth
house of intelligence and discrimination may also be prevalent.
Close conjunctions of Rahu or Ketu with the Moon may also
be challenging to the client's mental health and addictive
tendencies. Saturn's conjunction or aspect to the natal
Moon also tends to reflect a melancholy mind that can lead
to a depressive illness. Saturn's transit over the natal
Moon (Sade Sati) can also reflect times of dysphoria. Of
course, any affliction to the Sun, the First house or its
lord can strongly affect the general health and emotional
well being of the client. The dasha or bhukti of an afflicted
planet will also make the individual more susceptible to
psychological disturbance and low self-esteem.
However,
it is important in the therapeutic process to hold the belief
that any planetary position or aspect holds a positive potential
for personal growth. Using words such as "afflicted",
"weak", or "bad" during a consultation
can generate fear, shame and low self-esteem. Speaking in
terms of a planetary aspect in the natal chart as an opportunity
for growth and reframing the situation in a positive light
is a more effective method of empowerment.
Challenging Client
Styles
Each client that comes to the astrologer is a unique soul
and should be treated as a special manifestation of God.
However, certain client styles may be more difficult than
others to work with. The following are a few of the challenging
personality styles and their general characteristics that
you may encounter in your astrological practice.
(1)
The Professional. This client has usually been
to at least a dozen astrologers, psychics, numerologists,
tarot readers in the last twelve months. They want some
person of authority to make their decisions for them. They
have a strong case of "psychic dependency" which
interferes with them exerting their own will.
(2)
The Skeptic/Confounder. This client does not believe
that astrology is credible and would enjoy proving you wrong.
This can be the resistive husband that is brought to the
consultation by the wife or the person that is given the
consultation as a birthday gift. Even if your natal chart
analysis is correct, they may deny your interpretation.
This type of client enjoys playing "stump the astrologer".
(3)
The Agreeable Client. In this client's eyes,
you are God, incarnate. Every word you utter is the
gospel truth.
They see you as infallible. Be careful though, because
if someone makes you God, the Devil is not far behind.
If your
predictions do not come to pass, you may experience the
proverbial fall from grace.
(4)
The Confessional. The client may see you as the
priest or Father Confessor to absolve them of their sins.
They may also want you to condone the behavior that they
feel guilt about. Depending on your own ethics and morality,
this can be a very challenging situation placing you in
a God-like role.
(5)
Rescue Me. This is the client looking for the "magic
pill" and by the astrologer waving the magic wand,
everything will be fine. They also want to know when Prince
Charming is going to arrive or what are their lucky numbers
for the lottery. After the session, the astrologer may feel
mentally and physically drained.
(6)
The Victim. They believe that the difficult aspects
in their natal chart are further proof that God is punishing
them. The goal is try to help them release the role of "playing
victim" and become an active participant in turning
their life around. They created their karmic situation,
so they can also heal it. They need to know that there is
light at the end of the tunnel, and that it is not a train.
Through
awareness of these challenging client styles, the astrologer
need not "fall prey" or perpetuate these ineffective
client strategies. The astrologer can be aware of the games
being played and hopefully guide the client toward more
meaningful strategies of personal growth. The astrologer
must be careful not to collude with a client's grandiose
projection of the astrologer's greatness, no matter how
good it feels! The possibility of the astrologer working
out unresolved ego problems of their own grandiosity with
their clients is always a danger. Remember, astrologers
are fallible. We need to acknowledge the limitations of
astrology. The great Hindu astrologer and guru, Swami Sri
Yukteswar eloquently stated that:
"A
child is born on that day and at that hour when the celestial
rays are in mathematical harmony with his individual karma.
The horoscope is a challenging portrait, revealing his unalterable
past and probable future results. The message boldly blazoned
across the heavens at the moment of birth is not meant to
emphasize fate, but to arouse man's will to escape from
his universal thralldom. What he has done, he can undo.
None other than himself was the instigator of whatever effects
are now prevalent in his life. He can overcome any limitation,
because he created it by his own actions in the first place,
and because he possesses spiritual resources that are not
subject to planetary pressure."
"Superstitious
awe of astrology makes one an automaton, slavishly dependent
on mechanical guidance. The wise defeats his planets- which
is to say his past- by transferring his allegiance from
the creation to the creator. The more one realizes one's
unity with spirit, the less one can be dominated by matter.
The
soul is ever free; it is deathless because birthless. It
cannot be regimented by the stars."
Sri
Yukteswar concludes by saying: "by prayer, by will
power, by yoga meditation, by consultation with saints,
by use of astrological bangles- the adverse effects of past
wrongs can be minimized or nullified".
Thus,
one's personal destiny must be accompanied by personal action.
The keynote of astrology is discrimination in action.
In
summary, it is imperative to support and motivate the
client
to take a more active role in their spiritual growth and
healing process rather that emphasizing a fated existence
that cannot be changed. One of the greatest strengths
of
Vedic Astrology is its use of remedial measures such as
prayer, mantras, yoga, meditation, yagyas and gemstones.
The qualities of the ideal astrologer have been described
by Varahamihira in the Brihat Samhita. He wrote that:-
"the
astrologer must be clean, efficient, bold, eloquent, possessed
of genius, sincere, not timiana, assemblies, not to be overpowered
by fellow students, expert, well versed in the art of performing
rituals of both curative and preventive types and suggesting
remedial measures".
Thus,
the astrologer is called upon to be part healer, priest,
counsellor, mystic, choice revealer and friend.
And
finally, the astrologer should emphasize to the client that
one's own will combined with the grace of God can be stronger
than any challenging astrological influence. Namaste.
Dennis
M. Harness, PhD, P.O.Box 2149, Sedona, AZ 86339.
Tel 001 (928) 282 6595
email Dennis
Harness
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