Astrological Counselling

dennis_harnessby Dennis Harness

Yukteswar’s warning (see below) is important to keep in mind when attempting to make definitive predictions about a client’s life.

Thus, an astrologer may be more ethically sound, by speaking in terms of potential trends rather than specific future events.

The astrologer must understand the “laws of Karma”, for even accurate predictions need to be accompanied by right understanding of the significance of life events.

That is, what is the life lesson that is being taught at a given moment in time.

Astrological Counselling Styles

In regards to astrological consulting, three basic styles are prevalent.

The first and most basic method is an Informational Style.

This involves the astrologer making either an audio and/or written analysis of the natal chart and sending it to the person. If the consultation is done face to face, little dialogue takes place with this format.

This presentation style reflects a major difference between astrologers and psychotherapists. That is, astrologers are paid to talk, and psychotherapists are paid to listen.

The problem with this approach is that it allows little, if any input from the client. It is often difficult to assess completely from the chart alone, the client’s motivation and state of consciousness.

I remember giving a consultation to a female client with a Kemadruma Yoga where no planets were placed on either side of the Moon and no planets were found in the kendras from the Lagna or the Moon. In his classic text, Three Hundred Important Combinations, Dr. Raman writes that this yoga can reflect a person who will be “dirty, sorrowful, doing unrighteous deeds, poor, dependent, a rogue and a swindler”.

In fact, the infamous O.J. Simpson has this yoga in his natal chart. Whereas, my female client’s Kemadruma Yoga manifested into her work with Mother Theresa: helping the sick, the dependent and the poor in the streets of Calcutta. She is currently one of the charity organization’s chief advisors.

There is always some mystery how a specific aspect or planetary yoga may manifest in an individual’s life.

The second basic style of astrological consulting is a Counselling Style

This can involve an in-depth dialogue between the astrologer and client. It can be done either face to face or by a phone consultation.

A good astrologer is usually very intuitive and can read much from the physiognomy and facial expressions. When giving a consultation by phone, I often request that the client send a photograph and letter stating their concerns and questions to assist in creating more empathic connection.

Literally, the client wants to be seen on all levels of being.

As mentioned previously, the astrologer should receive some basic training in effective counselling skills such as: building rapport, empathy, effective listening and unconditional positive regard toward the client; diagnosing mental illness, and not flooding the client with negative or challenging aspects in their natal chart.

Astrological knowledge that does not consider the state of consciousness of the client can cause great psychological harm, especially if forced prematurely on a client. The astrologer must be able to discern what is appropriate to share at a given moment.

It is also essential that the client leave the astrological consultation with a sense of hope, faith and empowerment rather than fear, doom and gloom. In contrast, the astrologer must not “sugar coat” the consultation by avoiding all challenging aspects in the natal chart.

The third basic style is psychotherapeutic astrology.

This type of astrological counselling is rare and has its challenges. It would involve utilizing the natal chart as a diagnostic tool to enhance the weekly therapy sessions. As mentioned earlier, astrology was a diagnostic method that Dr. C.G. Jung used in his therapeutic practice.

Psychotherapeutic astrology allows the client’s view of their life lessons to be shared with the astrologer over the course of therapy. It is difficult to cover many issues in-depth when the client is not seen for more than one to two hours a year. Psychotherapeutic astrology encourages the client to ask questions and give responses anytime during the consultation.

As mentioned previously, the primary drawback of the single “astrological reading” is the necessary condition of minimal client participation in order to cover much ground in the session.

While counselling astrology is usually brief and aimed at specific problem areas, psychotherapeutic astrology is more long-term with a genuine relationship developing between the client and astrologer. Psychotherapy involves improving the person’s inner personality structure, whereas counselling helps the client to deal more effectively with immediate problems without requiring significant internal change.

Since traditional psychotherapy involves the therapist in the role of witness and a listener, presentation of astrological information would have to given with care and may not be appropriate with certain clients suffering from mental disorders such as chronic depression, schizophrenia, paranoia, etc.

Astrology can create a magical transference with the client seeing the therapist as the one who knows all and has the ‘Magic Pill” for instant recovery. This can create unrealistic projections that get in the way of the natural healing process that is taking place in the therapeutic relationship between client and therapist.

These issues will have to be addressed as more therapists begin to integrate astrology into their therapeutic practice.

In my own astrological practice, several psychotherapist’s refer their clients for an astrological consultation and then also listen to the audio tape of the session to gain further insight into the client’s psychological issues.

Archetypal Consultant

The psychotherapist can utilize the astrologer as an “archetypal consultant” to point out the hidden strengths as well as potential blocks in the therapeutic process.

C.G. Jung often emphasized the importance of discovering what archetypal myths the client is working with in this lifetime. As we know, astrology is an excellent tool for revealing life lessons, themes and personal myths pertaining to one’s individuation process.

It is important to remember that the basis of astrology is mythology and symbolic language. Exploring the myths and symbols of the planets, signs and nakshatras can be very enlightening during a consultation.

Knowing when to refer to a psychotherapist

When chronic psychological disturbance is observed, astrological therapy may be inappropriate or detrimental to the therapeutic process. A client suffering from chronic psychopathology such as depression or schizophrenia may need psychotherapy more than astrological counselling. If the astrologer is not trained in psychotherapy, they should have referral sources in their local community. It is a competent astrologer who also knows when to refer a client to a health professional.

Astrologically, I have seen afflictions to Mercury and/or Moon involved with mental disorders. Papa Katari Yoga may be present with Moon or Mercury scissored between two malefic planets. Afflictions to the Fourth house of emotional contentment and the Fifth house of intelligence and discrimination may also be prevalent. Close conjunctions of Rahu or Ketu with the Moon may also be challenging to the client’s mental health and addictive tendencies.

Saturn’s conjunction or aspect to the natal Moon also tends to reflect a melancholy mind that can lead to a depressive illness. Saturn’s transit over the natal Moon (Sade Sati) can also reflect times of dysphoria. Of course, any affliction to the Sun, the First house or its lord can strongly affect the general health and emotional well being of the client. The dasha or bhukti of an afflicted planet will also make the individual more susceptible to psychological disturbance and low self-esteem.

However, it is important in the therapeutic process to hold the belief that any planetary position or aspect holds a positive potential for personal growth. Using words such as “afflicted”, “weak”, or “bad” during a consultation can generate fear, shame and low self-esteem. Speaking in terms of a planetary aspect in the natal chart as an opportunity for growth and reframing the situation in a positive light is a more effective method of empowerment.

Challenging Client Styles

Each client that comes to the astrologer is a unique soul and should be treated as a special manifestation of God. However, certain client styles may be more difficult than others to work with. The following are a few of the challenging personality styles and their general characteristics that you may encounter in your astrological practice.

(1) The Professional

This client has usually been to at least a dozen astrologers, psychics, numerologists, tarot readers in the last twelve months. They want some person of authority to make their decisions for them. They have a strong case of “psychic dependency” which interferes with them exerting their own will.

(2) The Skeptic/Confounder

This client does not believe that astrology is credible and would enjoy proving you wrong. This can be the resistive husband that is brought to the consultation by the wife or the person that is given the consultation as a birthday gift. Even if your natal chart analysis is correct, they may deny your interpretation. This type of client enjoys playing “stump the astrologer”.

(3) The Agreeable Client.

In this client’s eyes, you are God, incarnate. Every word you utter is the gospel truth. They see you as infallible. Be careful though, because if someone makes you God, the Devil is not far behind. If your predictions do not come to pass, you may experience the proverbial fall from grace.

(4) The Confessional

The client may see you as the priest or Father Confessor to absolve them of their sins. They may also want you to condone the behavior that they feel guilt about. Depending on your own ethics and morality, this can be a very challenging situation placing you in a God-like role.

(5) Rescue Me

This is the client looking for the “magic pill” and by the astrologer waving the magic wand, everything will be fine. They also want to know when Prince Charming is going to arrive or what are their lucky numbers for the lottery. After the session, the astrologer may feel mentally and physically drained.

(6) The Victim

They believe that the difficult aspects in their natal chart are further proof that God is punishing them. The goal is try to help them release the role of “playing victim” and become an active participant in turning their life around. They created their karmic situation, so they can also heal it. They need to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel, and that it is not a train.

Astrologers are fallible

Through awareness of these challenging client styles, the astrologer need not “fall prey” or perpetuate these ineffective client strategies. The astrologer can be aware of the games being played and hopefully guide the client toward more meaningful strategies of personal growth. The astrologer must be careful not to collude with a client’s grandiose projection of the astrologer’s greatness, no matter how good it feels! The possibility of the astrologer working out unresolved ego problems of their own grandiosity with their clients is always a danger. Remember, astrologers are fallible. We need to acknowledge the limitations of astrology.

The great Hindu astrologer and guru, Swami Sri Yukteswar eloquently stated that:

“A child is born on that day and at that hour when the celestial rays are in mathematical harmony with his individual karma. The horoscope is a challenging portrait, revealing his unalterable past and probable future results. The message boldly blazoned across the heavens at the moment of birth is not meant to emphasize fate, but to arouse man’s will to escape from his universal thralldom. What he has done, he can undo. None other than himself was the instigator of whatever effects are now prevalent in his life. He can overcome any limitation, because he created it by his own actions in the first place, and because he possesses spiritual resources that are not subject to planetary pressure.”

“Superstitious awe of astrology makes one an automaton, slavishly dependent on mechanical guidance. The wise defeats his planets- which is to say his past- by transferring his allegiance from the creation to the creator. The more one realizes one’s unity with spirit, the less one can be dominated by matter.

The soul is ever free; it is deathless because birthless. It cannot be regimented by the stars.”

Sri Yukteswar concludes by saying: “by prayer, by will power, by yoga meditation, by consultation with saints, by use of astrological bangles- the adverse effects of past wrongs can be minimized or nullified”.

Thus, one’s personal destiny must be accompanied by personal action. The keynote of astrology is discrimination in action.

In summary, it is imperative to support and motivate the client to take a more active role in their spiritual growth and healing process rather that emphasizing a fated existence that cannot be changed. One of the greatest strengths of Vedic Astrology is its use of remedial measures such as prayer, mantras, yoga, meditation, yagyas and gemstones. The qualities of the ideal astrologer have been described by Varahamihira in the Brihat Samhita.

He wrote that:-

“The astrologer must be clean, efficient, bold, eloquent, possessed of genius, sincere, not timiana, assemblies, not to be overpowered by fellow students, expert, well versed in the art of performing rituals of both curative and preventive types and suggesting remedial measures.”

Thus, the astrologer is called upon to be part healer, priest, counsellor, mystic, choice revealer and friend.

And finally, the astrologer should emphasize to the client that one’s own will combined with the grace of God can be stronger than any challenging astrological influence. Namaste.

 Dennis M. Harness PhD

P.O.Box 2149, Sedona, AZ 86339. Tel 001(928) 282 6595 email Dennis Harness